Monday, December 29, 2014

Report from the Appalachian Trail, Harper's Ferry

Catherine and Peter hiked with Steve (aka, “Flatlander”) along a section of the Appalachian Trail from Morgan's Mill Road, VA to Harpers Ferry, WV from Sept 23 to 27, 2014.










The day before commencing our hike, we visited the office of The Appalachian Trail Conservancy to purchase a copy of the 2014 Through-Hiker's Guide for our friend, Peter, of Cape Breton. While there we met hikers stopping for internet, laundry, and showers. There is also a school for “wannabe through-hikers”.

We joined Steve at the Econo Lodge in Harpers Ferry, West Virginia on Sept 22 after Michael and Lindsay's wedding in Gananoque, Ontario. Our shipments of freeze-dried foods awaited us at the Econo Lodge . To reduce the monotony of a freeze-dried diet, we ordered varied dishes from three companies (Mary Jane, Backpacker's Pantry and Packit Gourmet). We recommend Backpacker's Pantry and Packit Gourmet! Steve enjoyed Mountain House.


Steve had arranged for a shuttle from Harpers Ferry to the crossing of the Appalachian Trail by Morgan's Hill Road. Our driver, Mark, is a “through-hiker” who has now settled along this part of the Appalachian Trail and provides guide services. We recognized the truth of his saying, “the hardest part of your hike will be the first day”.

Indeed, the first part of our hike was the “roller-coaster”, a steep up-and-down section that required 2 ½ days to traverse. Because Catherine was only 3 weeks recovering from arthroscopy of her knee, we planned for short daily hikes, 5-7 miles/day. It was wise planning!













Click on this short video to get an impression of the terrain on the "roller coaster".



It was a joy to awake in the forest each morning!


About 0900 we departed our campsites in the forest, after a hearty breakfast. Some 2-3 miles later, around noon, we were eager for lunch, which was always leisurely.



Each day's hike ended about 1600, leaving daylight for setting up camp (pitching tents) and enjoying sunset and dusk around campfires. There was much lounging about the fires. Peter carried a pint of Jim Beam and Catherine her blackberry brandy.











We named each of our campsites by a characteristic feature.


Sept 23 Flat Top Camp
Sept 24 Sherwood Forest Camp (down in a wooded valley)
Sept 25 Baby Bear Campsite (you can guess why it got it's name)
Sept 26 Seven Mile Bend Campsite (our last camp)
Sept 27 Econo Lodge

Peter continued his practice of constructing "Fairy Houses" along the way.


Numerous hikers met us from the north, mostly male, young and fit "through-hikers". They started in Mt. Katahdin, Maine, in May and expected to be at the Georgia Springer Mountain terminus by mid November. Most “through-hikers” were solo, and few could stop and chat, as they had tight schedules and walked fast. Most were wearing shorts and had light packs. There were only two other men in our age group. I counted the females.... five with packs. Three were weekenders. Two females were “through-hikers” in the company of men.

Catherine's advice to anyone looking for young, fit male company is to start hiking!

The weather was marvelous. It rained only one night and into the next morning. After the “roller coaster” the terrain was easier and our progress increased toward 7 miles/day.

Spectacular long views were our rewards for reaching mountain peaks.


Access to overlooks sometimes required a rock scramble; "no pain, no gain".


Wildlife observed included a variety of birds, deer, and bear.  However, earthworms and spiders were the only wildlife to cooperate with our photography!










We passed two attractive Trail Centers: Bear's Den and Blackburn Trail Centers. We stayed at neither, preferring our forest tenting.

The Bear's Den was a private mansion donated by a wealthy obstetrician who enjoyed hiking. It is a lovely stone building close to the trail, staffed through regional and national ATC funds and isdesignated for backpackers only. They offer bunks, pizza, and Ben and Jerry's ice cream for $20 US/night. They also have showers and a laundry.  More details at www.bearsdencenter.org.










The Blackburn Trail Center consists of three attractive building, including a hostel. http://www.patc.net/PublicView/Custom/Volunteer_files/Blackburn_Trail_Center.aspx

The forest was lovely, with many sections of large, old growth timber.











Many forest mysteries received out attention, e.g., "How do vines, which are not self-supporting, manage to span distances of open space to reach the tree tops?"


We marveled at the impressive mountain geology, including glacier-carried boulders ("erratics"), slip-faults, igneous intrusions, metamorphisms; all part of tectonic geomorphing.


We passed the sign marking the approximate mid-point of the 2185 mile long Appalachian Trail.



None of us were injured along the way, but we moved slowly in the mornings. Aspirin, ibuprofen and Tylenol were our friends. No blisters, only some bruised toe nails. Steve says he noticed us making “old-people-sounds”, i.e., groaning as we got up from the ground. Catherine made use of a knee brace with reflective metal supports, making her appear the “bionic woman” in some of the photos. Steve had generously bought the brace for her. We made a companionable and pleasant group of hikers.

On our final day of hiking we entered The Battery overlooking the town of Harpers Ferry. The remains of the Civil War trenches and battlements were intriguing. As we were contemplating these, a Civil War Re-enactment commenced in the valley below, complete with cannon fire. It was a magical time to be standing among the overgrown remains of The Battery with cannon fire echoing up from the valley below. It was as if we had been transported back in time!

We completed our hike by crossing the Potomac River to return to the Econo Lodge.



The first showers after five days of hiking where most welcome before joining Steve at the Mountain View Diner for some country cooking that was not freeze-dried!   We returned to a parking lot full of motorcyclers from Pennsylvania. Catherine thought her little yellow "Tweety" looked sweet parked among the Harleys.

Also at the Econo Lodge we met a group of bicyclists pedaling from Washington accompanied by their support van.

That night Peter and Catherine attended a local Bluegrass Festival walking distance from the Econo Lodge.

The next morning after breakfast with him, we said goodbye to Steve. We stayed another day in Harpers Ferry and did a walking tour of town to visit the National Historical Center, learning about the geology, development, trains, John Brown's Raid on the Armory, the role in the Civil War. There was also a lovely lunch with local draft beer.

This is a beautiful section of The Appalachian Trail (www.appalachiantrail.org) with the added attraction of the town of Harpers Ferry (www.historicharpersferry.com) with it's many scenic and historic features.

“We believe that life is like a blank canvas, ready to receive as much paint as one wishes to throw upon it!” Danny Kaye, U.S. Singer and Actor

Ladybug and Eunoia (Our Trail Names)









Tuesday, May 20, 2014

CAMBODIA


CHAPTER IV OF THE ANCIENT KINGDOMS OF ASIA 
PHENOM PENH WITH SOFIA
Day 13, November 15, 2013
We left the Floating Fish Farm Village by fast-boat from Chau-Doc, Vietnam, to Phenom Penh, Cambodia, along the Mekong River.


We disembarked twice, once to clear out of Vietnam and then again to clear into Cambodia. At Phenom Penh we were met by our first local guide for Cambodia, “Sofia”.
















We had a glorious lunch at a waterside restaurant,
with our first Angkor beer ($1 US).






The pleasant waterfront, decorated with flags of many nations, is a hive of activity. We passed the Independence Monument honouring independence in November, 1962, and the nation's war dead.


Across the street is the Royal Palace which we visited after lunch. As we walked towards the Royal Palace, we were approached by young children begging. We were advised not to give money to them as they rarely get to keep it for their own needs, and to give to children beggars perpetuates their exploitation.

In stark contrast to the begging on the street outside was the ornate beauty within the National Museum, the bejeweled Silver Pagoda, the Royal Palace and the Elephant Museum with its towering tile roofs and ornate gilding behind protective walls with beautiful gardens. We learned of buildings on site that housed the King's concubines for centuries.



It was here that we witnessed guards turning away visitors in sleeveless shirts. There are stalls selling proper attire to visit the temple and palace.

We met a young monk who was happy to practice his English and was generous to chant a blessing for us. He admits that he will not be a monk for his lifetime. He is now taking advantage of the educational opportunities of being a monk.

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We checked into our hotel and later had a tuk-tuk ride to the river front to see the local night life.
We enjoyed dinner at our Almond Hotel. Catherine attended a pleasant traditional dance and music performance depicting the life story of two families. She was invited to participate on stage for the wedding ceremony.



Day 14, November 16, 2013
It is difficult for us to comprehend why genocide is a so oft repeated activity of human societies; over and over across the globe and across the centuries, up to the present day. We visited some sites in Cambodia seeking better understanding of this horrid behaviour.

We went to the Killing Fields of Choeung Ek, outside Phenom Penh. En-route, Sofia gave us a heartfelt lecture on the recent history of Cambodia. We learned that this Killing Field, one of numerous in Cambodia, contained 129 mass graves. 

















There is a large white stupa, or mausoleum, serving as a memorial to the more than 17,000 men, women and children who were executed here from 1975 through 1978. Behind the glass walls of the mausoleum are some 8,000 skulls found during excavation of the mass graves.









The Khmer Rouge, under Pol Pot, implemented a most heinous revolution. The purported goal was to transform Cambodia into a Maoist, agrarian, classless society with no rich, no poor, and no exploitation. To this end, they abolished education, free markets, private property, religion, and traditional Khmer culture. To establish a classless society, hundreds of thousands of Cambodians, including the majority of the country's educated, were relocated to the countryside, or executed. Those speaking foreign languages, or even just wearing eyeglasses, were executed as “elite parasites”.

One site of these atrocities was the Toul Sleng Genocide Museum that we toured. It was a local high school in the centre of Phenom Penh when it was converted by the Khmer Rouge into a detention and interrogation centre.  




A sign displays the rules of behavior for prisoners. 





Former classrooms now contain rusty bed-frames with shackles, and gruesome photos of the remains of the victims. These remains are now entombed in the courtyard. In another wing of the school building was a display of “mug shots” taken when the detainees entered the compound, not understanding what was in store for them. Most of the victims were later taken to the Killing Fields for execution.


We were fortunate to have met Chum Mey who is one of the last survivors.


Cambodia gained its independence from France in 1953 after nearly 100 years of colonial rule. This was followed by a civil war in 1970. During the Vietnam War, the US bombed suspected communist camps in Cambodia, killing many innocents with napalm and cluster bombs. Cambodians failed to defeat the Vietnamese communist forces with invasion by South Vietnamese and US troops, and Pol Pot was able to take over Cambodia. Phenom Penh fell to the Khmer Rouge two weeks before the fall of Saigon in 1975.

Previously, in 1970, the Vietnamese invaded Cambodia and overthrew the Khmer Rouge. Millions of Cambodians went on foot to flee the fighting and to search for their displaced family members. Crops wilted and famine ensued, killing thousands more. Meanwhile the Khmer Rouge, backed by China, Thailand and the US, fought the Vietnamese-backed government in Phenom Penh.

In 1991, Sihanouk once again became king under UN-administered elections with Prime Minister Hun Sen, of the CPP (Cambodian People's Party). Two decades after the end of the Khmer Rouge, the UN and the Cambodian government created a court to bring surviving members to trial, but bureaucratic nonsense has stalled its opening. Pol Pot escaped punishment by dying at home in 1998, but there is some mystery as to the cause of his death.

King Sihanouk, who led Cambodia through five decades of war, genocide and disorder, surprised the world with his unconstitutional passing of the throne to his 59 year-old relatively unknown son King Sihamoni, a former ballet dancer, before his death in 2012. Cambodia now has a constitutional monarchy, with the King as Head of State, adopting a policy of Liberal Democracy and Pluralism. The monarchy has no real power, but nevertheless, it remains a significant institution due to the reverence Cambodians have for the royal family. With King Sihamoni being completely apolitical, Hun Sen has no reason to act against the monarchy in its present form. As the King has no heirs, the constitution provides for an elective monarchy drawn from descendants of the 19th century monarch, King Ang Duang.

The one eyed Hun Sen (his eye was lost in the 1975 battle of Phenom Penh) is the longest serving Prime Minister, having been re-elected for a fourth term in September, 2013. As Deputy President of the Cambodian People's Party (CPP), he was victorious in the past three elections, in spite of his checkered reputation, being accused of being a Vietnamese puppet, dominating mainstream media, selling 45% of total landmass to foreign investors, and giving up concessions such as wildlife protections and national parks. Cambodia is officially a multiparty democracy, but many feel that Hun Sen rules as dictator.

Cambodia will eventually choose its path: pluralism, progress and prosperity, or intimidation, impunity and injustice. Of course, there is a tendency for entrenched elite and officials to focus on their short-term position.

Before we said good-bye to Sophia, she lightened our spirits with a show of the diversified uses of the “krama”, a checked scarf that's great for sun and dust protection, a doll, a towel, bandage, top, pants, etc.



We took tuk-tuks to visit the night market. Some of our group had a enjoyable dinner and drinks in a neighborhood restaurant and bar.

THE REST OF CAMBODIA WITH NARIN

Day 15, November 17, 2013
Before leaving Phenom Penh, we met our next guide, “Narin”, for the continuation of our tour of Cambodia. One look at Narin's smiling face, and we knew that we would be having a good time with him. He did an excellent job of answering all our questions and teaching us about Siem Reap, Angkor Thom, and many Cambodian highlights that are now indelibly imprinted in our memories.

All packed, we got up early for travel to Siem Reap via Kampong Thom, Kampong Kdei Ancient Bridge, and a long bus ride which took us along a narrow spit of land with the Mekong on the east and flooded fields on the west.

During the rainy season from June to October, the Mekong rises dramatically, forcing the Tonle Sap river to flow northwest into the lake of the same name. The lake swells beyond it's dry season banks, flooding much of Cambodia. Later in the season, the Tonle Sap reverses direction, draining the lake back into the Mekong River. Consequently, the Tonle Sap is one of the world's richest sources of freshwater fish. We stopped along the way to watch stone-cutters produce new Buddha statues and enjoyed a lunch overlooking the water.












Ehru Musician played for us during lunch.


Bags of Coloured water attract hummingbirds while water buffalo lounges in the water.



Spean Prap Toeus (bridge) is an important cardinal point crossing the Chikreng River. Located on an ancient road that connected the capital of Angkor to the provincial area to the southeast, it is the longest among the 22 bridges on the route.









En-route, we enjoyed another “learning and discovery” adventure. We were introduced to an attractive young lady who directed our Tarantula Cooking Class. She led us to her back yard where she began the search for fresh tarantulas, using a stick in their holes. She removed the “stinger” and collected dozens in a bucket filled with mulch.







We played with the tarantulas
for awhile before mincing garlic
and frying them for a delectable
snack!










                    



















Children were selling various edibles.
It was a memorable event.












There are numerous cottage industries in the countryside. Brahma cows supply beef. They are quite docile, as is apparent with Peter's companionable “Bessy”.


Rice, the perfect food, is planted in flooded fields, harvested by hand, and dried on tarps.







Duck farms are abundant.












Black market gasoline is sold in soda bottles.









Motor scooters pull huge loads of people in trailers. The “Chinese Buffalo” does the heavy item transport, and water buffalo are used for plowing fields and transportation.





















We could not help but pass this on for our electrician friends.

We stayed three nights at the Angkor Paradise Hotel with a happy hour cocktail bar, teak furniture in the lobby and bedrooms, a stocked bar en suite, and attentive restaurant staff. There were sandstone carved sculptures, a ranaat ehk (bamboo-keyed percussion instrument resembling the Western xylophone) played by a lovely young lady in traditional dress. Orchids were abundant, especially around the refreshing swimming pool.































Yellow and gold chrysanthemums are
frequently placed before Buddha.





Our first night's dinner: green mango salad with dry shrimp, chicken soup with lemon pickle, grilled fish with lemon-butter sauce, steamed jasmine rice. Dessert was a Khmer delight.

At the end of the day we went to Angkor Thom Gate to purchase our "passes".  Highly efficient clerks take photos in one line and you receive the pass in another.  It is reported that a wealthy Vietnamese owns this concession.


Day 16, November 18, 2013
The next day, en route to Banteay Srei, we stopped for “learning and discovery” at a rice noodle shop. The work that goes into this family business, which is supplemented by tailor dressmaking, is nothing less than phenomenal. Mother and her three daughters demonstrated the whole process, which was time-intensive and the product delicious. 






To see more about the making of the noodle nests, click on this video.  Just like making pasta, and sanitary too!



The rice noodles we made were
served with chicken-based soup.
Umm!














The children are beautiful and Jean was a pro with angels of all ages.

We visited Banteay Srei, meaning “Citadel of Women”, recognized as a tribute to female beauty. It is one of the smaller temples in the area, built in AD 967 with elaborate carvings around the doors and walls that have survived the centuries better than some others because of the type and size of stone for construction. The walls are covered in exquisite carvings. 

 


Unfortunately, some of the exquisite carvings
are pocked with bullet wounds from various
conflicts.




The soft red sandstone can be carved almost like wood and allows for incredible detail. It was carved in the 11th century and in use as a temple until the 14th century. The temple complex was “discovered” by French archeologists in 1914 and became famous when writer Andre Malraux tried to steal four devatos (goddesses) in 1923. During the 1930s Banteay Srei was the first Angkor monument to benefit from a new process of anastylosis (the archeological reassembly of ruined monuments from fallen or decayed fragments, incorporating new materials when necessary). 

In 1936, the original condition was confirmed scientifically and proper placement of each recovered component determined, establishing the true age of the temple. Sadly, the temple has been looted several times, depleting Cambodia's heritage. Even concrete replicas of sculptures that had been moved to the Angkor Conservatory have been attacked.

We enjoyed Khmer Traditional Music performed by the Handicap of Banteay Srey Temple, victims of landmines.







I tried to play music using a leaf like the performing musician did effortlessly. I need more practice.

 I bought a CD to support them.


The walls of temples in Angkor Thom and Banteay Srei are carved with foliage, geometric patterns and male and female divinities. The females wear such heavy earrings that their earlobes are elongated (“the better to hear you”).


After lunch, we departed for Tonle Sap Lake which translates into “Great Fresh Water Lake” for a boat cruise and visit to a most unusual farming community.


We enjoyed our boat cruise to the floating agricultural village, where families have lived for centuries, fishing, farming, attending school and having fun. The photos are worth a thousand words. We enjoyed some of the delicacies that the boat women prepared and were surprised to see alligators in a tank. The damming of the Mekong River has begun and threatens to impact the residences and livelihood of thousands in Vietnam and Cambodia.

Many people live, work, study and play here with their families.  They have "corner stores" and produce enough to feed themselves and sell to visitors and other shops.  There is a temple, of course, located in the centre of the village complete with monks.













The ride on a water buffalo-drawn carte was memorable. These huge, docile animals can be managed by children. They are ever-present as “beasts of burden” in the flooded rice fields.buffalo carte ride. The ride on a water buffalo-drawn carte was memorable. These huge, docile animals can be managed by children. They are ever-present as “beasts of burden” in the flooded rice fields.








Back in Siem Reap, we enjoyed dinner at a local restaurant with Tom Yon Chicken Soup, Fried Pork with Cashew Nuts, Cambodian Chicken Curry, Fried Mixed Vegetables with Oyster Sauce, Steamed Jasmine Rice, and a Seasonal Fresh Fruit Platter (Nom Plai Ai).










After hours of touring, some of our group went to a “fish spa” where tiny fish nibble away at one's feet removing “dried skin” and relieving the tired feeling. “Doctor fish” is the common name given to the species of fish, Garra rufa.



Day 17, November 19, 2013
We enjoyed a full day at Angkor Thom, a holy city that took centuries to build and whose scale is breathtaking. We arrived before dawn, along with hundreds of others, for beautiful views of the temple reflected in the lotus pool.


Angkor Wat is the largest religious building in the world and the last great capital of the Khmer Empire. It is the heart and soul of Cambodia, a source of national pride to all Khmers as they struggle to rebuild their lives. It is a large pyramid temple, built between 1113 and 1150. Without going into all the detail, I will point out the highlights. There are 5 towers, a central tower representing the Hindu mythical Mt. Meru, surrounded by smaller towers, surrounded by lower courtyards and all by a moat. The central temple consists of three elaborate levels, each which encloses a square surrounded by intricately interlinked galleries. The seven-headed naga serpent along the causeway is an emblematic rainbow-bridge for human kind to reach the abode of the gods.

We had time to explore the intricacies of these treasures. We saw young people posing in beautiful Apsara dance costumes, and examined the historical art everywhere present.

The stairs at Angkor Wat ascended at a steep angle and were closed for years after several accidents. Today a less steep wooden staircase carries a long line of visitors to the top of Cambodia's greatest monument and a world heritage site.

The surviving temples are but a skeleton of the vast empire that stretched from Burma to Vietnam. At one time, the population of Angkor Thom was one million when London was a city of only 50,000. All the wooden homes and palaces have decayed, leaving only those of brick and stone.

A group of archeologists and philologists (literature, speech, and language researchers), mostly French, made an arduous effort to clear away the jungle vegetation that was breaking the monuments and to rebuild the damaged structures, restoring them to something approaching their original grandeur.

The crowing achievement of Jayavarman VII, the greatest of Khmer kings, was the completion in the late 12th century of Angkor Thom. It is spread over 10 square kilometres and surrounded by an 8 metre laterite wall and a 100 metre-wide moat. The Khmer aristocrats who built the temples and monuments were motivated by their Hindu and Buddhist beliefs. Inside there is a large statue of Buddha, some large libraries and lotus ponds.

















Moving these huge blocks of laterite from a distant quarry, down the river and into the proper place involves ingenuity without the use of heavy equipment, only human energy.  We learned how these blocks were more easily moved into place.










Breakfast and souvenirs were supplied by abundant vendors. Catherine bought her “erhu”, a two-stringed bowed spike fiddle originally from China. She introduced her fiddling friends to this lovely rosewood and teak wood with a small sound box covered with goat skin. It is played sitting down with the sound box on the left thigh or on the floor with the neck held vertically.


The ehru has some unusual features. First, the sound is made through the vibration of the goat skin by bowing. Second, there is no fingerboard. The player stops the strings by pressing their fingertips onto the metal strings. Third, the bow is played between the strings. Lastly, the inside string (near the musician) is tuned to D4 and the outside string to A4.











After lunch, we visited Bayon, Baphoun, and Ta Prohm temple and returned after dinner to see Angkor Wat by twilight.



Bayon, encompassing 37 towers with 200 faces of the Bodhisattva Avalokitshvara, an analgam of the faces of Buddha and King Jayavarman, makes you feel you are being followed by a “Khmer smile”. The most famous appeal of this temple comes from the bass-reliefs on the exterior walls with historical battle and domestic themes.






And then there was Ta Prohm!
Ta Prohm is one of the most popular temples for reasons that the photos clearly illustrate. This temple has been left as it was found by French archeologists in the mid 1800s, overgrown with huge Spung trees. The state of ruin is truly a state of beauty.









Angkor Thom is a national park and a good illustration of how Cambodia was once endowed with magnificent hardwood trees, such as ebony and rosewood, so popular for creating the beautiful hand-carved furnishings and sculptures of Siem Reap. The forest was splendid, cool and we shall remember it as long as we live.

Today the decline in the coverage of old-growth forests has endangered native species of tigers and elephants. Corruption and rural poverty have delayed effective action to check the decline of native species of plants and animals.

Before leaving Angkor Thom we were treated to a surprise Happy Hour by Pe and Narin. We enjoyed Cambodian snacks and wine while we watched night fall from atop the wall of the Angkor moat.









Dinner was on our own. We walked to a dinner theatre where we enjoyed watching apsara dancers. I especially enjoyed the coconut dance and the costumes with Avalokitshvara smiling behind them.





We were fortunate to encounter unusual foods throughout our trip. Some of these were duck embryo, crickets, durian (fruit), prahoc, tarantulas, dog, cat, blood-duck soup, offal or fish bladders, algae, brains, frogs, and cobra.  We didn't try everything!


Day 18, November 20, 2013
As this was our final day, we had to get last minute gifts. We always managed time for the markets. We visited the Angkor Artisans ( www.artisansdangkor.com ) for a guided tour where handicapped Cambodians are being trained to create lacquer art, paintings on mulberry paper, carve stone, woodworking, jewelry production, and weaving silk. Items can be purchased online or bought in their gift shop where they display samples of lovely handmade items.




Other desirable items include “Tiger Balm”. It can cure everything. There was also the checkered “krama”, a versatile scarf often made of exquisitely dyed silk-cotton blends. Other attractive items included paper-mache masks, stone copies of ancient Khmer art, brass figurines, silk, sarongs, silver, gems, table place mats and runners. We did our part to help the Cambodian economy.

Sadly, we too soon departed Siem Reap, Cambodia, to return to Bangkok on our way back to North America.

So, we have taken you on a wonderful adventure to the Ancient Kingdoms of Asia, in four parts: Thailand, Laos, Vietnam and Cambodia.  You may want to look at a map of our travels.




Perhaps some of you will be encouraged to take this trip yourselves. In the meantime, we hope that you enjoyed our rendition of what was for us a wonderful trip.














Catherine and Peter









As a postscript, I would like to share a bit of wisdom from Mark Twain:

Life is Too Short................
Break the Rules,
Forgive Quickly,
Kiss Slowly,
Love Truly,
Laugh Uncontrollably,
and Never Regret Anything That Made You Smile.

Life May Not be the Party We Hoped For,
but While We're Here,
We Should Dance.